I haven nothing to go on except his word regarding if he did anything physcial..my main concern being any one night stands while traveling for work. But gut tells me otherwise and I know he would take one if I asked him to. Anyone ever done this?
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I don’t have a real opinion on the reliability of a polygraph but IMO if you’re to the point of wanting to give him a lie detector…. you’ve got bigger issues to work out than your fear of him cheating. I think a polygraph could be the first step to nowhere. Its just not worth it. If he isn’t cheating and you give him one… sure… you may feel relief.. but he’ll only feel resentment PLUS he’ll be able to cheat on you more freely and when you get paranoid about him cheating again he could just say "well we’ve already been through this.. I took the polygraph. You’re just being paranoid again." It’ll be much easier for him to cheat if he resents you for thinking he was a cheater when he wasn’t.
No. Unless you are the jealous type (and it sounds as if you may be), if you think he is cheating, he usually is. Look at his cell phone and the credit card bills. That will tell the story.
Don’t bother…assume he is cheating. Now what are you gonna do??
If you are desperate then yes but I would not even pay for one. If you really know someone you can tell if they lie.
Change in the lovin’ usually mean cheating
That’s a bit much, if you have feelings that he has done it and he said he didn’t, you can do two things 1) believe his word or 2) leave him. Going through all that just to see if he is lying about something he did or didn’t do is to much.
No. If the mistrust gets to the point at which a polygraph is the only thing that will satisfy someone the marriage is already over. If he takes the test and fails, you will leave. If he takes the test and passes, he will resent you for having demanded it rather than trust him and will eventually leave you.
Since polygraph tests are unreliable, give false positives, and are easy to fake; and since they’re not even admissible evidence in a court of law, I’d say, heck no.
Furthermore, if you can’t trust your spouse you shouldn’t be married to them. If their word isn’t good enough, you’re with the wrong person.
If you have lost trust in him then the marriage is in trouble get into some counselling and just maybe he may come clean that is if he is in the wrong and cheating really though trust is fundamental in marriage or any relationship for that matter lose that you got alot of hardwork ahead of you don’t give up until you got proof he is not being faithful then take him to the cleaners if you so desire.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
why … watch his body movement.If he’s wants change the subject or subject matter even the slightest. He is lying. Try a separation If he truly wants you he’ll bend over backwards to help you and this need. If your gut feeling is he is cheating….. he is
I did. My ex husband was a con artist, liar, abuser, cheater, theif and drug addict. He messed up so many times I was over my limit. I told him to tell me the truth about the last time he cheated. He said he didn’t cheat and would take a lie detector. Ha! I called his bluff and hired someone. The results were exactly what I had thought. He cheated and more than once. But the lie detector, whether it was valid or not, did not need to tell me that. You always know in your gut what a person is about.
Do it! My girlfriend [mother of my kids] had a 6 month affair w/ her boss in 2004 and claimed it was over. In order to work things out for our kids, i took her to have one done. Now before we went through w/ it, i asked her to tell me everything. Detail and all… That way if she passed i wouldn’t feel so bad for how much i paid. Well guess what she failed! When we got home of course we fought about how she made me look stupid etc etc. She then said i failed cause i was scared. I said bs it doesn’t lie, come clean! She then came forward and admitted some things she either never told me or lied about. Well lil did she know, one day as we were driving i said guess what? Were going back! The look on her face was priceless! She started saying, okay! I know i told you everything. I’ll pass! Well guess what!? She didn’t! I won’t go any further into what happen after that. We’ll just say the past is the past. But to answer your question about polygraph test? Yes i believe in them. The only way you will know is if you take him. What can i say? Him vs 99.9% for love? It’s worth it! Good Luck!
i really hate to see this because i have been put throught the emotional ringer like you are doing now, except my worst nightmare came true. it sounds like theres already no trust, in my opinion you should just get out of the marriage. even if he were to pass a polygraph, theres always going to be a seed of doubt in your mind. i think about divorcing my wife all of the time, but not because of her (she has done a 180), but because i have been mentally beating myself up.
If you have to resort to a polygraph are you even going to believe the results????
I don’t think that it can help, rather, it can worsen the marriage. I think that proper advice from people who are good on making advices regarding relationship problems.
Hmmm i think he is cheating. Now what are you gonna do??
Losing trust in marriage is really sad. The affairs of a husband puts into a emotional depression and recovery is the hardest part.