My ex spouse said I sent him an email admitting to lying in our divorce which could reverse some decisions the judge made. Is there anyway to prove that I didn’t send it? I think he logged on to my account and sent it to himself to reverse the decisions! HELP!
Email is a regular form of communication between since we seperated. But I’ve kept every email I’ve sent to him and received from him. My attorney has been informed that he has my password and I changed it as soon as I figured out what he had done. I’m wondering who I would get to "trace" or prove he sent it and not me. How do you prove it?
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yea tell them to trace the email, if it came from his home or office or wutever, and u can prove that u were somwhere else at the time and place he sent it, then u dont have to worry…
if u want to track i suggest u buy this software at
http://www.emailtrackerpro.com/
it will trace it easily
He has to prove it is real….you don’t have to prove anything.
What would Jesus do?
try to get him to confess and record it.
Talk to a lawyer. Get legal advice.
wow you aheva major problem i wish i could help
better talk to your lawyer
He is grasping at straws.
The divorce is final, overwith, ka-put!
He’s trying to yank your chain. Ignore him.
Just tell the judge what you just wrote us.
do you have the records and have you documented? Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
They can track where the email came from. Call your lawyer!
It’s OVER, move on, there is nothing he can do without it costing a LOT of money.
tell him stop saying u r lying about sending whatever u sent him.
Let the judge know that he has your password, or if u know his send one to yourself, which tells u wat he did.
He has to prove it and I would suggest changing the password on your email, which is something you should have done a long time ago.
He would have to prove its authenticity.Since it is a possibility that he knows your passwords and such, there is a chance that it is in fact a fake. So therefore I dont believe there will be any rulings based on that email. If it is in fact found out that he conjured up this email, then his credibility will be at stake and the judge will probable sway in your direction.
This is a question for your lawyer and maybe even for a computer expert. There may be a way to track the e-mail to learn exactly what computer it was sent from and what time. If you could prove you weren’t at that location at that time, and that your husband had sufficient access and knowledge to hack into your account, you would certainly be able to raise doubt as to the credibility of the message? Furthermore, was this a one-time thing and not your habit, or does he have a whole bunch of messages from you at different times? In other words, was this a typical way for you to communicate with him–if not, that might help your case. It may just come down to "he said, she said" in court. You need to do everything you can to come across during the proceedings as the calm rational one so the judge will see that you are credible.
Be very careful, he is probably tapping your phone calls and/or recording your conversations too. Better limit contact to with other witnesses present, or better yet through the attorneys at this point.
Talk to your lawyer and listen to his/her advice. If you don’t have one, it’s time to get the best one you can possibly afford.
Yes, judges in divorce court have nothing better to do than reverse their decisions. They live for it…because there aren’t enough divorces going on out there to keep them busy enough as it is.
Close all your accounts and open new ones with new passwords and let the last contact you have with him be you telling him to knock himself out. Because if you didn’t send one it would have to come from someone’s computer and it wouldn’t be yours, it’d be his…every computer has its own personal code which attaches to every email, every webpage, etc.
You are perfectly safe. They cannot take an unsubstatiated email as evidence of anything, I do recommend you change your email company and password so it cannot happen again.
Good Luck
If you have children that is all that you discuss with him. Anything from that point you refuse to discuss. Tape some of his calls to prove he is harassing you…and never respond on the phone to him by using bad language but be calm after he has rattled on and ask him to please stop. Just imagine the judge listening in on your response to him and let him hang himself!
yes but it is going to be along process tell the judge that you did not do it and let them investigate the will go into his comoputer and they can anilize it and they can see the time and date it was send they can get him on this it is condisdered fraud he will be in deep shit.
if you are divorced…..then you are divorced…..
Call your e-mail provider and ask them to tell you the IP address that the e-mail came from.
On your computer if you go to Run and type in CMD
a little black pop-up box will appear
type in: ipconfig
look for the IP address – that’s unique to YOUR computer.
Write down the IP address the e-mail provider gave you, if it doesn’t match, you know your ex probably sent it.
You might also want to get the IP address from your work computer too, so he can’t try to say you sent it from there.