When I asked my boyfriend to explain where he was & who he was with when he had disappeared for 4 days last month… He got hell of nervous & tried to turn things around on me! He hasn’t talked to me in 2 weeks & I won’t call him because I did nothing wrong except maybe believing in the jerk. I want to go off on the guy but he is so not worth it. Any suggestions?

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I ask this in M&D because I don’t want answers from a bunch of 12 year olds.

Anyway, we know you men are visual creatures and you choose your mate based mostly on how she looks, so why don’t you admit that? Why do you lie and try to say her personality is most important and looks come in last? You’re not fooling nobody.

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My 8 yr old nephew is steeling from other kids in after care & then lying about it (among other things he lies about). We’ve tried spanking, "steeling" everything from him till there is only his bed and dresser in his room, & now writing sentences. Nothing seems to phase him. He is a great child besides that; very respectful when u speak 2 him & caring with his 2 younger brothers. He lives with his father & (soon to be) step mother that he calls mommy (of his own choice). His biological mother is not in the picture and has not been for quite some time. He was having problems in school the first few years (lying and acting out), but this year he is extreamly good in school and home, but not in after care where he has tried to steel other kids’ things. After care has separated his cubby from everyone else’s to make sure he is not steeling things, but this has no effect either. Now, a few of the parents are not allowing their kids to play w/ him anymore, still w/ no effect. Please advise

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I am so tired of this. My 11 yr old stepdaughter is stealing from my oldest daughter (12 yrs old), and then takes the things to her mom’s house. She lies about it, and has managed to convince her dad that she didn’t do anything. Well, I found out from her younger sister that she has my daughter’s things over there, and she also told me how her sister talks pretty bad to her mom about me, but yet, when she is with me, she is all chatty & sweet to my face. Do I just ignore her playing both sides (she talks bad abt her mom to me) – but what about her stealing? It isn’t fair to my daughter, what should i do?

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