Do they not realize or just do not care how much they are hurting someone by leading them on and letting them think that there could be a future together. Do guys just not have feelings? Do they not care how much pain they are causing?
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It’s a little dangerous to generalize using the term "men." Not all men lie and mislead women. There are many men who feel the same way about women – that they have no feelings, lie to get what they want and are only out to get their needs met without respect to the guy’s feelings. I can assure you that 99% of the men who now hurt women were once hurt by a women, and before she hurt him, she was either hurt by some boy or made a childish mistake that later created an emotionally protective man.
We all make the mistakes that we do out of the fear of being hurt. The many players and bachelors of the world were created by broken hearts and lost loves.
What women must do is learn to discern the good men from the broken ones. There truly are a lot of good men out there, looking for a women they can respect, trust and love. Every time a good man mets a bad women, she hurts him creating a bad man that a good woman will thereafter meet. It’s a vicious cycle.
Don’t let this bad experience sour you and make you jaded. Don’t go out and meet the next guy assuming that he’s going to hurt you, because then you’ll just perpetuate the circle.
Next time you meet a guy you like, be honest with him, take is slow and focus less on his words than on his actions. He will eventually SHOW you what he’s truly about. Try again, and give the next one some time.
Good luck!
maybe
just maybe
’cause they wanna get in your pants
guys lie because we just do and some women fall for it…it’s a strategy to get her pants taken off
Because men are very selfish. Enough said.
Why throw the gender stereotype in there? There are decent men out there that don’t play mind games, and there are stupid women out there who play the games as well.
Generally an individual lies about their feelings for another person to get something they want from them. Maybe they want money, maybe they want sex, maybe they want a dozen other things- it’s going to vary situation to situation.
Sometimes you end up with an *** through no fault of your own. Time will help, and eventually you can move on from it.